I am Cecily, the newest editor at Type-A Mom, and I am here to introduce myself and share how I became a Mommy Blogger.
It didn't happen overnight; in fact, it took almost three years for
it to happen. But it did happen, finally, and then I became a Mommy
Blogger.
First, though, I was a writer. Actually, it was worse
than that; I was a POET. I wrote lovely poems that were published
almost nowhere, and read my poems to teeming crowds at poetry readings
(a teeming poetry crowd, by the way, is usually about eight people).
But I also kept a private journal because they say you aren't really a
writer unless you journal. But my journals were full of complaints and
whines about my life and were certainly no fun to read.
But then
I decided (along with my husband) that it was time to start a family.
Easy, right? Nope. Not for us. After trying and trying (that was fun
while it lasted), we could not get pregnant on our own. So we began the
long struggle of assisted reproduction, and it was during that process
that I discovered the amazing world of blogs.
At the time, there
were only a small handful of women blogging about their struggles to
get pregnant. There were only about six well-known infertility
bloggers, and it didn't take long for me to see how blogging would be a
great way to cope with our infertility struggles as well as find
support and guidance from those that had gone on before. So in March of
2004 I launched my blog, "And I Wasted All That Birth Control..."
I
loved blogging, and soon, people (other than friends and family)
started reading. Not long after I began I underwent my first IVF cycle,
and was lucky enough to get pregnant with twin boys. It was a happy,
heady time made tough by an incredibly difficult pregnancy, and
blogging kept me sane.
I was not quite six months pregnant when
the worst happened: I developed severe pre-eclampsia. One twin passed
away, and within a few days I was informed I needed to terminate my
pregnancy or I would die.
Again, it was blogging that kept me
sane, even during the dark times when I was trolled* and abused by
strangers. But over 1,000 comments came the day I had to say goodbye to
both my sons Nicholas and Zachary. With the help of my readers, I
survived the year after I lost the boys, and decided to try again. This
time, things went well, and on June 7, 2006 my daughter Victoria Anne
Sarah (but you can call her Tori) was born.
And that was the day I became a Mommy Blogger.
So,
what is Mommy Blogging? Do Mommy Bloggers just write about their
children? How many Mommy Blogs are out there? How do you become a Mommy
Blogger--and how do you become a successful money-making Mommy Blogger?
And did I say trolls?
These are the issues and questions I
plan to explore here at Type-A Mom, and we will learn more about the
art of Mommy Blogging together (I hope!). Stay tuned to this space as
we meet the most famous Mommy Bloggers and hear about how they became
successful. I hope you are looking forward to this as much as I am!
*Trolls
are an Internet fixture; they are basically people who have nothing
better to do than post nasty comments and interfere with normal
Internet business. With luck, you will never meet one.