The other day, my daughter came over with her three boys. They surprised me with four strawberry plants in strawberry pots. I promised my grandsons that they could help me plant them in my garden. My daughter told me that it had been her 3 1/2-year-old son's idea to buy the strawberry plants after he had inquired about the strawberry "stamp" on my wrist, and I had told him the story that goes along with it.
This "stamp," of course, is a tattoo I have of two luscious strawberries with green velvety leaves. This honors my own grandma, Grandma Martin, and reminds me each day to retain a great big piece of my childhood.
My mom says that my love affair with strawberries began when I was
just a toddler. Just as many other hot, sordid affairs; mine
began in scandalous over-indulgence.
As the story goes, my Grandma Martin took me out one summer morning
to her vast Michigan strawberry fields to pick strawberries. Innocent
enough. My grandmother held a belief that there is magic in the ground we
farm, and that magic sprouts blessed harvests. My Grandma Martin
knew the promises and the rewards of her soil. Especially in her
luscious strawberries.
So off we went. Grandma Martin,her baskets, and me toddling behind;
wearing the great big calico sun bonnet that she had made just for me.
As my mom tells it, it seems that my grandmother simply let me
delight in the budding curiosities of childhood. In other words, what
might a strawberry or two or fifteen look like if squished between my
fingers? How many strawberries would fit in one sun bonnet? And… just
how many sweet, ripe, luxuriously red strawberries could one child eat?
Ah. I don’t remember the squishing or the bonnet stuffing, but I do
remember the eating. I remember my grandma showing me how to lift the
velvety green leaves aside to find the red treasure beneath. I remember
the cool earth and the rows upon rows upon rows of green velvet. I
remember my grandma’s nimble fingers showing me the magic beneath. And
I remember eating the strawberries, one after another. I swear they
were as big as my fist.
I remember holding my Grandma Martin’s hand as we walked through the
fields back to the farm house. She carried one huge basket filled with
strawberries in her other hand. And I remember her telling my grandpa
that she had left full baskets in the strawberry fields that needed to
be picked up. He would do that later… with his tractor.
And I remember being the princess of strawberries that day.
My grandma pulled a chair up to her big sink basin and let me help
her wash the strawberries. I helped her fill small baskets that she
would sell at her roadside fruit and vegetable stand. And she let me
line up the rest of the strawberries as she sliced them… swiftly, but
beautifully… for dessert that night.
Of all things in my lifetime, my strawberry memories on the Michigan
farm with my Grandma Martin would be the ones that formed and shaped
me. Perhaps it was the fresh air. The summer sun. The holding of my
hand. The sun bonnets. The kitchen basin. The
always-like-it-was-the-first-time discovery of the red fruit beneath
the velvet. It was all about family. Generations. Love. And her
strawberries.
Those strawberries. My love affair with strawberries.
Now, I eat strawberries on ice cream. In yogurt. On pies and cakes. Smothering shortcake.
And big, ripe whole. Just like on the day I fell in love. The day my
Grandma Martin let me value the price and innocence of my childhood in
the juicy deliciousness of a strawberry or two or fifteen.
I hear this year is a bumper crop year for strawberries.
I am sure my Grandma Martin is watching closely as she tends the
fields in heaven. And each time I touch a strawberry, especially when I
am with my grandchildren… I know she is watching.
OK. Next time, I will let them devour a strawberry or two or
fifteen… and if they are as lucky as I am, the love affair will
continue into another generation.
Thank you, Grandma. Thank you for the greatest gift of all… treasured memories.
Memories that I have now been able to pass along to my own grandchildren.
This story is so sweet! My memories of my grandparents are filled with strawberries, too. I used to help them in the summer on their u-pick strawberry farm in the mountains of PA.
Thanks so much for sharing and bringing back some sweet memories of my own.
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