The first time I was
sentenced to bed during a pregnancy (because I saw it as a “sentence” – I had
been looking forward to doing ‘normal’ pregnant things, like shopping and
showing off, not languishing in bed), I forgot to ask why. I was so concerned
about the pregnancy and so worried that something I did would cause it to fail
that I obeyed without questioning.Looking back now, I
realise that my doctor was probably being over-cautious. There was little else
he could do. I had had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and my previous pregnancy had
been fraught with problems. Bed rest seemed like the only option for me, given
my crazy history.
Maybe you're in the
same position right now. Perhaps your doctor has prescribed bed rest and at the
time, you were too shocked or panicked to ask two all-important questions:
"Why?" and "Will it do
any good?"
I think these are
excellent questions to ask. Not only will the information empower you, but, if
you're anything like me, the answers will help you to feel better about going
to bed.
Why?
I trawled the internet
to found out why bed rest is prescribed:
Wikipediatells us it can be prescribed for complications of pregnancy like:
premature rupture of your membranes (water
breaking) or
premature contractions.
So it seems that bed
rest could be prescribed for any number of pregnancy complications. Don't see
your particular problem there? Give your doctor a call and find out exactly why
you're on bed rest. Find out what the plan is and whether bed rest is the best
option for you. Trust me: it'll make you feel a whole lot better about what
you're doing.
Is bed rest effective?
The second question
isn't as easily answered. The jury still seems to be out on whether bed rest is
beneficial in all cases. Some doctors believe that it lowers stress in women
who work at high-pressure jobs or who generally lead a stressful lifestyle. They
also say it helps lower blood pressure and takes pressure off your cervix. Lying
on your left side, which a lot of doctors suggest, helps increase blood flow to
the uterus.
But others aren't
convinced that bed rest during pregnancy is best. Apparently, there have been
few studies on its efficacy, so it's still unknown whether it actually improves
outcomes.
I can't say whether it
worked for me, because all my pregnancy complications were so diverse and in
some cases, I obeyed doctor's orders, while in others, I ignored them. I can
say, though, that it never failed to increase
my stress levels. Bed rest always seemed to take me by surprise and I
always had a thousand things on the go that had to come to a grinding halt when
I went to bed. The stress of passing on work duties, kids' school
administration and household-running actually stressed me out far more than my
usual lifestyle did.
Whatever your doctor's
opinion, it's important that you trust his judgement. Failure to do so will
cause you to doubt the value of his prescription. The last thing you want is to
spend your time on bed rest wondering whether it's the best thing for you and
your pregnancy.