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Breathe, Just Breathe - An Effective Strategy for Daily Coping

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Written by Kirsti A. Dyer MD, MS, FT   
Tuesday, 05 February 2008

Breathe to Cope with Stress, Photo by Georgios WollbrechtThe lyrics to Anna Nalick's song "Breathe" have been my new mantra when things start getting difficult. I've even purchased a bracelet that I wear on days that anticipate may be difficult.

Taking a moment and remember to "Breathe, Just Breathe" serves as a helpful reminder that when I feel stressed, I need to breathe and it will help relieve the tension.

Clouds with words Breathe...Just Breathe
No one can find the rewind button now,
So cradle your head in your hands,
And breathe,

Just breathe,

Oh breathe,

Just Breathe

Modification of Lyrics by Anna Nalick, Breathe

Breathing - An Effective Strategy for Coping

There are many different breathing techniques that can be used to help in calming the frazzled nerves that many parents frequently experience as part of daily living. Calming your own nerves helps you to keep calm down when coping with your children.

This article includes two easily to learn and to use techniques can be incorporated into your daily life as a way of managing stress and coping.

Slow, Deep Breaths

This technique is one that can be easily done in just a few minutes. If you are having one of those crazy days, you can take a minute or two to calm yourself down and get recentered. Find a comfortable place or position to sit before starting this technique.

1. Stop what you are doing and focus on your breathing.
2. Breathe deeply.
3. Exhale slowly.
4. Feel your body relaxing.
5. Repeat 3-5 times.

Mini Break - 30 seconds to Relax

Another quick technique that can also be used. Since this one only takes 30 seconds, so you can sneak a breathing break in with a bathroom break.

1. Find a quiet place.
2. Close your eyes.

3. Count backwards from 10 to 0.

4. As you count...

Imagine that your worries are shrinking in importance, until you reach 0 and they have diminished in size.

5. Open your eyes and feel refreshed.

Breathing During Stressful Times 

When you are having one of 'those days' just take a minute and remember to "Breathe." Breathing is a simple, effective stress reducing technique, that may just help you make it through the day.

About the Author

Kirsti A. Dyer MD, MS, CWS is a respected physician, an expert in life challenges, loss, grief and bereavement, professional health educator, professor, lecturer and author. Dr. Dyer is trained in Internal Medicine or an Adult Medicine specialty. She is the mother of two young energetic daughters, so spends a lot of time remindering herself to "Breathe."

Dr. Dyer created and has maintained Journey of Hearts, a website for anyone who has ever experienced a loss. She is also the Parent of a very healthy NICU Survivor. She is the author of For Those Who Hold the Littlest Hands, an eBook written to provide information, encouragement and support for NICU parents.

 

 

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Hunters View   |72.16.1.xxx |2008-02-17 13:32:15
This is great, I do this a lot. I have four kids and when they get to invite their friends over in the summer, I sometimes have 12 kids over at my house. This really does work,I usually keep them very busy playing, but if they start to fight, I take a few breaths and usually count to ten. Then it seems much easier to handle the situation. Great advice!
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